Anonymous said...
The oppisite of death is not life. It's birth. Life is its own with no oppisite. Love it and live it like there is no tomorrow. I am sorry for your lose and I am expierencing much of the same in my own family. Enjoy your new path with open eyes
Well, this comment caught enough of my attention to get me to respond.
I will say, first of all, that I have a very hard time taking people serious when they can’t spell correctly. This only really qualifies for people who label themselves as nameless.
Yet, however mysterious you may wish to remain,, I’ll just say that I appreciate your response and I am sorry to hear of your similar experiences within your own family.
Your seemingly inspirational quote about “live it like there’s no tomorrow” leads me to have a pretty good idea of who you are, but in any event…
Everyone read on!
Now, I did say in my post that death is, in a sense, a rebirth.
I then added, “…hence, with every death comes a new breath of life.”
Does a new breath of life qualify as birth? I tend to believe so…or perhaps my wording is simply different than that of others. But I do feel that death leads to more life…life starts with birth. So in a sense, we’re saying the same things.
Why does birth have to be taken as a literal, “when you’re born” kind of thing? Why can’t we say that birth is the beginning of anything new to us? If my previous sentence defines birth, then new breath’s of life can be found everywhere…all around us…all the time. Doesn’t that make life just a tad more beautiful, even when it includes death?
But I’ll take it one step further. If, as you say, life has no opposite, then what balances it out? To quote a line from the Matrix trilogy, “Everything that has a beginning has an end.”
To quote Benjamin Franklin, “Nothing in life is certain except death and taxes.”
Funny as it is, think about it. Death is a constant…everyone dies at some point. So if death is the end of life, what does that make life? Birth is the beginning…death is the end. You’re right, anonymous, there’s no debating that.
I do, however, believe that it goes deeper than that. Birth and death may be opposites, but so are life and death based on their fundamental definitions.
I strongly believe that death is a constructor of life…I gather my beliefs on this from every day experiences. Where I see death, I also see new life. In the case of my grandfather, I saw his death…but I also saw his grandchildren with THEIR children in their arms. That, to me, is a form of rebirth. Obviously this is only one example, but I do find it to be one of the strongest examples ANYWHERE of rebirth.
As I said, death constructs life, life fabricates other life, life ends with death…repeat.
Actually, we could pick up where you left off—delving beyond your remark that life has no opposite—to say that everything within our lives balances itself out. Could that be it? Could it be that life is one big…thing…but all of the raw materials of our lives balance themselves out?
Let’s get a conversation going on this before I post another topic.
Responses make this worth it.
Please feel free to share your opinions, thoughts, and experiences.